Easy Peasy - Natural Anal Relaxing Gel 30 ml

Easy Peasy: the anal relaxant that unwinds you without switching you off

The Easy Peasy by Love to Love is an anal relaxing gel designed to ease penetration without relying on chemical anaesthetic agents. Where many gels on the market use lidocaine to numb the area (and kill all sensation along with it), this one relies on a blend of natural essential oils that gently relax the muscles. You still feel everything that's happening — just without the tension.

The product is made in France, with a formula composed of 100% naturally derived ingredients. No parabens, no PEG, no phenoxyethanol, no palm oil. Clean stuff. And as a bonus, the formula is kissable, meaning it's compatible with oral sex. We won't lie — it doesn't taste like dessert, but at least it's safe.

Why this gel makes the difference

It relaxes without anaesthetising. That's the key point. A numbing gel cuts off your sensations, which can mask pain that's actually warning you something is wrong. Easy Peasy relaxes the sphincter through essential oils, but you keep your body's feedback. That's healthier and more enjoyable in the long run.

The cooling effect of peppermint brings a light, refreshing sensation that helps the area unwind. It's not an ice-cube effect — it's subtle, just enough for the muscles to let go naturally.

Lavender and clove are the two other main actives. Lavender soothes and reduces muscle tension; clove has mild natural analgesic properties (that's eugenol — the same compound used in dentistry). The combination works well to prepare the area without neutralising it.

The sunflower oil + beeswax base provides long-lasting glide and protects the skin. It's more emollient than a standard water-based gel, and it won't dry out mid-session.

How to use it

Dispense a small amount of gel onto your fingertips using the pump bottle. Gently massage the anal area in circular motions. Take your time: the essential oils need a few minutes to take effect. This isn't a product to rush — let it do its job.

Once you feel the area more relaxed, you can move on to penetration. If you're also using a lubricant (which is recommended), make sure it's compatible with the oil base of Easy Peasy. A water-based lubricant works perfectly as a complement.

You can use it solo to prepare for a plug or dildo, or with a partner as part of anal foreplay. The 30 ml bottle is small and discreet, easy to slip into a toiletry bag.

What it concretely changes in your sex life

If you tend to tense up during anal penetration — whether from nerves or reflex — this gel helps you get past that hurdle. The natural muscle relaxation makes entry smoother, and keeping your sensations intact lets you better guide your partner or set the pace yourself.

It's a great ally for anal beginners who want to ease into it gradually, and also for regular practitioners who want extra comfort with more ambitious toy sizes.

The kissable aspect is a real plus for rimming and oral foreplay. No need to stop and clean the area before switching to oral sex — the formula is designed for it.

Precautions and compatibility

Important: this gel is oil-based. This means it is not compatible with latex condoms. Oil weakens latex and can cause it to break. If you use condoms, opt for polyurethane or polyisoprene models, or apply the gel only during preparation and clean the area before putting on a condom.

The manufacturer states that the product is compatible with sex toys. However, the oil base may not suit all materials. Avoid prolonged contact with rubber or jelly toys. Silicone, stainless steel, and glass are perfectly fine.

Do not use on irritated, wounded, or infected skin. If you have sensitive skin or known allergies to essential oils (lavender, mint, eugenol), do a patch test on your forearm before first use.

Store the bottle in a cool, dry place, away from light.

Technical specifications

INCI: Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Oil, Cera Alba, Mentha Piperita (Peppermint) Oil, Lavandula (Lavender) Oil, Tocopherol, Eugenia Caryophyllus (Clove) Oil, Benzyl Benzoate, Benzyl Salicylate, Eugenol, Farnesol, Geraniol, Limonene, Linalool.

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: Is this an anaesthetic gel?

No, quite the opposite. Easy Peasy relaxes the muscles through essential oils, but it doesn't cut off sensation. You stay in control and keep all the feeling — it's safer and more enjoyable than a lidocaine gel.

Q: Can I use it with a condom?

Not with a latex condom. The oil base weakens latex. If you want to use a condom, choose a polyurethane or polyisoprene model, or clean the area before putting one on.

Q: Does 30 ml last long?

A small amount is enough per use. With regular use, the bottle easily lasts several weeks. It's a concentrated product — no need to slather it on.

Q: Can I use it for rimming?

Yes, the formula is kissable and safe for oral contact. The taste isn't neutral (mint + essential oils), but it's perfectly safe.