Double Dildo 45 cm - Flexible and Ribbed, Two Ends

Two bottoms, one problem solved

It's a situation plenty of guys know: two men who both love bottoming, and nobody to top. You make do, you take turns, someone makes an effort. Or you bring out a double dildo and the question stops mattering.

The idea is simple: a 45 cm shaft with an end on each side. Each of you takes one, and you control the pace together. Nobody waits their turn, nobody has to sacrifice.

This Toy Joy model is made of flexible translucent purple PVC, with a 3.5 cm diameter and ribbing on both ends. It's curved, which matters more than you'd think: a rigid, straight shaft forces a single position, a flexible one adapts to yours.

What the length changes

45 cm isn't a number chosen to impress. It's what's needed for two bodies to move independently without banging into each other or getting stuck in an unworkable position.

With a shorter model, you're forced to stay hip to hip the whole time. That works in exactly one position, and neither of you can really thrust.

With 45 cm, you keep room to spare. Each of you can move forward, pull back, change the angle, and there's always length left in reserve. That's what makes this genuinely workable rather than theoretical.

The flexibility does the rest. The PVC on this model bends without breaking: it handles positions where the two bodies aren't lined up, which covers pretty much every interesting position.

The ribbing works on every movement. Unlike a smooth surface that just slides, it catches on the way through — and since you're both moving, it works twice as hard.

Positions that work

Back to back, the go-to position. You face away from each other, on all fours or lying on your sides, and back up towards one another. It's the most intuitive position, the one that gives each of you the most control, and usually where you'll start.

Face to face, lying on your sides. More intimate: you can see each other, kiss, touch, and manage the pace while reading each other's faces. Coordination is easier when you can watch your partner.

Scissoring. Legs crossed over each other, both of you on your sides: this gives the most range with the least effort, and it's the one that tires you out the least over time.

One on all fours, the other lying down. Whoever's on all fours leads and controls the depth for both of you. It's the variant to pick if one of you has more experience than the other.

And solo, the length lets you bend the dildo into a U and hold both ends, or brace one end against a wall or piece of furniture and back onto it. A double dildo is far from useless on your own.

How to go about it

Prep separately first. This is the most useful tip: a double dildo isn't a warm-up tool. Fingers, a plug, or a slimmer toy — once you're both ready, bring this one out.

Lube generously, along the whole length. PVC isn't the slickest material out there, and there are two of you who need it. You'll need more than you think, and you'll need to reapply.

Good news on lube: PVC gets on fine with both water-based and silicone lubricants. A silicone lube, which doesn't dry out, is actually the best choice here — one of the rare toys where you can use it without any risk.

Start slow and at the same time. Each of you inserts your half gently, without chasing depth. You'll adjust afterwards.

Talk to each other. This is the one toy where one of you can hurt the other without even realising: a slightly sharp thrust on one end transmits fully to the other. A word is enough to fix it.

Find the rhythm before chasing intensity. The first few minutes are for getting in sync. Once the movement is in time, everything else becomes possible.

And keep a free hand. There's no rule that says you can only focus on what's happening in the middle.

What it changes between you

It ends the role dynamic. No top, no bottom, no negotiating who does what. You're in exactly the same position, literally, and it changes the dynamic of an evening.

You get to watch each other experience it. This is what users mention first: feeling the same thing at the same time, and seeing what it does on the other person's face. That's hard to get any other way.

It's a great addition to a threesome. A double dildo keeps two people occupied while the third does something else. The combinations get a lot richer.

And it's fun. There's a coordination-game, almost sporty side to it that takes the pressure off — especially the first few times, when you'll inevitably get it wrong and end up laughing about it.

Safety and care

This dildo has no flared base. That's the nature of a double dong: two penetrating ends and nothing to stop it going too far. Always keep a hand on it and never let go of control completely. At 45 cm the risk is theoretical, but the rule still stands.

PVC is a porous material. It can't be sterilised in depth, which matters when a toy is being shared by two people at once. A condom on each end settles the question for good, especially if you're not fluid-bonded.

Clean it before and after, with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, along the entire length including the middle. Dry it completely.

Don't boil it and don't put it in the dishwasher: PVC warps under heat.

Store it flat or loosely coiled with no sharp creases, in a pouch, and without prolonged contact with silicone toys — two different soft materials touching for a long time can eventually react.

Waterproof, so it's fine in the shower and washes up without any special care.

Technical specifications

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: Is 3.5 cm diameter manageable?

A: It's an average diameter, comparable to a decent-sized cock. It's not a complete-beginner toy, but if you both already have regular anal practice, it goes in without difficulty with good prep.

Q: Isn't 45 cm huge?

A: That's the total length for two people, not an insertion depth. Each of you takes as much as you want, and there's always slack left in the middle. That reserve is exactly what makes the toy comfortable.

Q: Can we use it one at a time, separately?

A: Yes, but wash it between uses or switch condoms. PVC is porous, it's not a material you share casually.

Q: Which lubricant should we use?

A: Water or silicone, both work fine on PVC. Silicone is actually preferable here: it doesn't dry out, and on a long session together you'll appreciate not having to stop and reapply.