Bondage & Restraints

Want to break the routine and explore deeper power-play fantasies? BDSM (bondage, spanking, control, teasing…) creates intense tension fast, as long as you’ve got the right gear and clear rules. Start with Fetish & BDSM and our Bondage & Restraints essentials.

The “toolbox” of a great Dom (and a smart sub)

Good accessories help you build scenes, increase sensations, and keep things safer and smoother. Whether you’re curious or experienced, the goal is progressive play with comfort and real excitement.

Types of restraints

Restraints aren’t only about “holding someone down”. They create anticipation, surrender, and control in a sexy, structured way:

• Handcuffs & cuffs: wrists/ankles restraint, from soft comfort styles to firmer control.
• Spreader bars: great for positioning and exploring without improvising dangerously.
• Collars & leashes: for guiding and amplifying the dynamic (clear consent required).
• Harnesses & strap systems: more “full-body” restraint vibes and strong aesthetics.
• More intense restraint gear: best reserved for experienced players with excellent communication.

Scenes & scenarios: tension is the real turn-on

Bondage is physical and psychological. From soft teasing (held, denied, stimulated) to roleplay scenarios (consensual captivity, discipline), the hottest part is trust, anticipation, and knowing the boundaries.

To expand your scenes, mix in BDSM gags, nipple clamps, or chastity for long-game control and teasing.

Tips for safe, enjoyable play

• Consent + limits: talk before, adjust during, debrief after.
• Safeword: non-negotiable and respected instantly.
• Go gradual: start soft, level up only if it feels right.
• Comfort signs: unusual pain, numbness, breathing issues = stop immediately.
• Lube & protection: depending on the play, use lube and condoms to avoid irritation and problems.