9-Piece BDSM Set - Black and Rose Gold, Vegan

Nine pieces, so you can stop buying one thing at a time

Buying BDSM gear piece by piece gets expensive and always leaves a gap: you've got the cuffs but not the blindfold, the paddle but nothing to tie someone down with. This Rosy Gold set sorts it out in one go, with nine accessories covering restraint, sensory deprivation, stimulation and impact.

The other selling point is how it looks. Most starter kits look cheap: shiny black plastic, chains that rust, straps that fray after the third use. This one goes for black and rose gold, with wide straps and matching hardware. It changes how it feels pulling it out of the drawer, and it changes how it feels to the person on the other end too.

The whole set is vegan and unisex: polyurethane, metal, ABS and feathers, no animal leather. All the restraint pieces are adjustable and detach via clips, so every piece works on its own too.

What's in the set, piece by piece

The pair of wrist cuffs. Adjustable from 12 to 19 cm, 35 cm total length, 5 cm wide. The wide straps spread the pressure out, which is noticeably more comfortable than thin cuffs over a long session.

The pair of ankle cuffs. Adjustable from 25 to 36 cm, 39 cm total length, 5 cm wide.

The BDSM collar. Adjustable from 35 to 45 cm with press-studs, 2.5 cm wide.

The leash. 97 cm total, rose gold chain with a webbing handle.

The satin blindfold. Black, soft, cuts off your sight — the most underrated piece in the whole kit.

The paddle. Braided handle, flat striking surface. The short length gives you control and avoids nasty surprises when you're just starting out.

The feather tickler. Black feathers mounted on a metal handle.

The nipple clamps. Adjustable, with decorative feathers on each clamp.

The massage candle. Coconut and soy wax, rose scent. It melts into a warm massage oil — this isn't a wax-play candle meant to drip from above, it's a proper massage candle.

Where to start if you're new to this

The blindfold, always first. It's the piece that delivers the most effect for the least risk. Cutting off sight amplifies everything else: every touch becomes a surprise, every sound matters more. A lot of couples find they don't even need the rest of the kit on the first night.

Wrist cuffs next. In front rather than behind to start with: it's less strain on the shoulders and lets you last longer. Clip them to each other, or to a bed frame if you've got one.

The tickler before the paddle. The contrast between feathers and leather comes later. Start by learning where he's sensitive with something that can't hurt at all.

The paddle, on the right zones only. Buttocks, back of the thighs, upper back. Never the lower back, never the spine, never the neck or face, never joints. Start much gentler than you think you should: it's easy to ramp up, hard to walk back.

Nipple clamps last. Set them wide to begin with. The most intense part isn't putting them on, it's taking them off, when the blood rushes back — warn your guy before you remove them.

The collar and leash are more about role-play than physical restraint. The leash guides, it doesn't pull: never any tension on the leash toward the neck, ever.

What this opens up

The set is unisex and works for any pairing. Between guys, it lets you step outside the purely mechanical top-bottom framework: the real question becomes who's calling the shots, and that's not necessarily whoever's doing the penetrating.

Switching roles is the best use of a complete kit. You take turns from one session to the next, each of you finds out what it's like on both sides, and you learn very quickly what actually does something for you.

The slow build. Nine accessories means nine possible steps. Blindfold, then wrists, then ankles, then the tickler, then the paddle. Spreading out the setup turns a twenty-minute session into a whole evening.

The collar as a marker. For couples exploring dominance and submission, the moment it goes on and the moment it comes off frame the scene far better than words ever could.

And the candle for afterwards. Aftercare isn't optional in this kind of play. A warm oil massage after a scene is what brings things back down properly — and that's probably exactly why they put it in the box.

The safety rules, non-negotiable

A safeword, agreed beforehand. A word nobody would say by accident. And if the mouth is busy or gagged, a hand signal agreed on in advance — two taps on the mattress, for example.

Two fingers. You should be able to slide two fingers between the strap and the skin. If you can't, it's too tight, no matter how it feels in the moment.

Check circulation every ten minutes. Cold, white or blue hands and feet, numbness, tingling: unclip immediately. A restraint should never hurt at the extremities.

Never leave someone tied up alone. Not to grab a drink, not to answer the phone. Never.

Keep scissors within reach. Round-tipped safety scissors, in the room, not in a kitchen drawer. Clips release fast but a strap can jam.

Nipple clamps: 15 to 20 minutes maximum. Beyond that, cut-off circulation can cause damage. Removal stings hard, that's normal, but give a warning first.

The collar doesn't tighten. It should stay loose, you should be able to fit two fingers under it. No tension on the leash toward the neck, no suspension, never sleep in the collar.

The massage candle should be poured from low height onto healthy skin. Always test a drop on your own forearm before pouring it on someone else.

Care and storage

The straps: damp cloth with a bit of mild soap, then air dry. Never soak them, water lifts the stitching and the rose gold coating.

The metal: wipe down after use, especially the clips and the leash chain. Leftover moisture always ends up leaving marks eventually.

The satin blindfold hand-washes in cold water and dries flat.

The tickler doesn't get washed. Shake it out and store it away from dust, feathers facing up, with nothing resting on top of it.

The clamps clean with soapy water and dry thoroughly. Check regularly that the adjustment still holds.

Shared hygiene: polyurethane restraints can't be sterilised. If you're playing with different partners, clean thoroughly between sessions and avoid any contact between the straps and bodily fluids.

Storage: the original box does the job. Away from light and moisture, straps laid flat rather than tightly folded.

Technical specifications

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: Will the cuffs fit thick wrists?

A: They adjust from 12 to 19 cm around. That's comfortable for most male builds, but if you train a lot, measure your wrist before ordering. The ankles have more room, 25 to 36 cm.

Q: Is this suitable for complete beginners?

A: Yes, that's actually its main target. Start with the blindfold and wrist cuffs, save the paddle and clamps for later, and read the safety section before your first session.

Q: Does the candle work for wax play?

A: No, it's a standard massage candle: it melts into warm oil that you spread on the skin. To drip wax onto skin, you need low-temperature BDSM candles, which are a different product.

Q: Can the pieces be used separately?

A: Yes, everything detaches via clips. The cuffs work on their own, the leash clips on elsewhere, and nothing forces you to bring the whole kit out at once.