Facial Strap-On Harness with Dildo Mount

A harness that turns head movement into a new kind of play

The Head Bondage Harness by Bedroom Fantasies is a facial harness with a dildo mounting system. The concept is simple: a dildo is fitted at chin level through the dedicated opening. Once the toy is attached and the harness adjusted on the head, the wearer can use head movement to guide the action while keeping the mouth free for kissing, licking or other forms of stimulation.

It is an accessory designed for roleplay and dominance/submission dynamics, opening up combinations of stimulation that are difficult to achieve otherwise. It creates a service-oriented, visually intense setup with a strong fetish aesthetic.

The harness is made of black vegan faux leather, with a strap that runs over the top of the head and a chin support that keeps the dildo in place. The whole piece is adjustable to fit different head sizes.

What it allows in practice

Combined stimulation. The mounted dildo allows one form of stimulation while the mouth remains available for another, creating a more layered and immersive experience.

Roleplay potential. The facial strap-on creates an immediate power dynamic. The wearer becomes part of the scene in a very direct, visual way.

Control through movement. The receiver can also help guide positioning and rhythm, making the interaction more collaborative and intense.

How to set it up

Attach the dildo first. Insert the dildo into the chin opening. It should be firm enough to hold its position during use, and the diameter of the base should match the opening properly. Check that the toy feels secure and does not move too much from side to side.

Adjust the harness. Place the harness on the wearer’s head. The top strap runs over the skull, while the chin support sits underneath the chin. Tighten the straps so the harness feels stable and does not slip when the head moves.

Lubricate the dildo. Apply the appropriate lubricant depending on the material of the dildo used. For silicone toys, water-based lubricant is generally the safest choice.

Find the right position. The first attempts may require a little coordination to find the best angle and rhythm. That is completely normal.

Which dildo to use

The harness is sold without a dildo, so you can choose the one that suits you best. A few important points:

Size: a medium-sized dildo usually works best. If it is too long, the angle may become difficult to control with head movement. Too short, and the setup may feel less effective.

Firmness: choose a dildo firm enough not to bend too much under pressure. Firmer silicone, glass or metal models are usually better suited than very soft dual-density toys.

Base: check that the dildo base fits properly into the harness opening. Flat bases or round suction-cup bases are often the easiest to adapt.

Care

Clean the faux leather with a damp cloth. The chin support may come into contact with saliva or fluids, so clean it carefully after each use. Let it air dry. Do not soak the harness in water.

The dildo should be cleaned separately according to its material.

Technical sheet

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: Is a dildo included?

No. The harness is sold on its own, so you can choose a dildo that matches both your preferences and the size of the mounting opening. That also means you can switch toys depending on the mood or setup.

Q: Is it comfortable for the wearer?

The harness itself can be comfortable when properly adjusted. Most of the effort comes from head and neck movement, which can become tiring over time. Taking breaks helps, and a reclined position is usually less demanding.

Q: Does the dildo stay secure during use?

Yes, provided the dildo is correctly fitted and its base matches the harness opening. If the fit is too loose, the toy may shift or rotate, so it is always worth testing the setup before use.

Q: Can it be used solo?

Not really. This is an accessory designed for partnered play. Its whole concept depends on interaction between wearer and receiver.