Inflatable Sex Position Cushion with Dildo Mount - The Straddler

The sex furniture that fits in a drawer

Bed pillows squash flat, slide around and are never the right height. The Straddler by Bedroom Fantasies is an inflatable positioning cushion designed for sex: an arched shape that supports your hips and legs, topped with a reinforced opening that holds the base of a suction cup dildo.

Inflated, it measures 38 x 28 x 26 cm and stays stable under your weight. Deflated, it folds up and disappears into a bag or a drawer. Its tough PVC shell is covered in soft polyester that feels lovely against your skin, far more comfortable than bare plastic.

Why you'll love it

The dildo stays put, your hands stay free. Fix your suction cup dildo in the central opening, straddle it, and you're in control of everything: depth, angle, rhythm. Both hands are free to wank, pinch your nipples or hold your phone if you're filming.

Raised hips, deeper penetration. Lying on your back with the cushion under your bum, your pelvis tilts and access is more direct. Face down, doggy style, it takes the strain off your lower back and keeps your hips at just the right height for your top.

Less fatigue, more staying power. By supporting your body weight, it saves you from thigh cramps and sore knees. The result: you hold the position longer and stay focused on the sensations.

Stable but easy to move. Its wide base doesn't roll, and it's so light you can shift it one-handed from one position to the next.

Discreet between sessions. No bulky foam wedge to hide: deflate it, fold it, done.

What it changes for anal pleasure

With anal, it's all about the angle. The rectum isn't straight and the prostate sits on the front wall, a few centimetres in from the entrance. When your hips are raised, the cock or dildo heads towards it more naturally, and penetration takes less effort for both of you.

When riding a dildo, the difference is even clearer: you sink down at your own pace, stop whenever you like, and tilt your pelvis slightly forwards or backwards to find the spot that sends you flying. It's the ideal position for getting used to a new size, because nobody's pushing but you.

Positions to try

Hands-free riding: dildo fixed in the opening, knees either side of the cushion, you ride up and down at your own speed.

Supported doggy: belly resting on the arch, arse in the air, back relaxed. Your partner is at exactly the right height.

Tilted missionary: cushion under your lower back, legs on his shoulders. The angle aims straight for the prostate.

Kneeling for blowjobs: sitting on the cushion, you stay at the right height without wrecking your knees on the floorboards.

New to this? You gain comfort and control. Experienced? You add a proper riding mount to your toy collection.

Tips for use

• Inflate it through the valve to the firmness you like: firmer for riding, slightly softer for lying on.
• Check your dildo is compatible: its suction cup must be wide enough to be held by the opening. Dildo not included.
• Put a towel underneath if you use a lot of lube.
• Keep it away from sharp objects, spiked jewellery and long nails, as with any inflatable.
• Clean it with a damp cloth and mild soap, and let it dry before deflating and putting it away.

Technical specifications

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: Will any dildo fit the opening?

A: It's designed to hold the base of many suction cup dildos. A dildo with a wide, flat suction cup holds best; a toy without a suction cup won't stay in place.

Q: Can it take a man's weight?

A: Yes, it's made to be sat or lain on. Inflate it properly and put it on a flat surface, with no sharp objects nearby.

Q: How do I inflate it?

A: Through its valve, by mouth or with a small air pump. Adjust the firmness to suit the position, then close the valve securely.

Q: Is it easy to clean?

A: Yes: damp cloth and mild soap, then leave it to air dry. Avoid folding it while it's still damp.