Male Butt Stroker — Cheap Thrills The First Mate

A compact format that does not take up much space but still delivers

The First Mate from CalExotics’ Cheap Thrills range is a male butt stroker. Its design features two realistic curves with a single canal, all made from Pure Skin, a soft and stretchable TPE designed to recreate a skin-like feel. At 1.2 kg, it has enough weight to feel stable in the hand and reassuringly dense during use.

The nautical theme of the range adds a playful, unapologetic touch, with a positioning clearly aimed at male pleasure. The tone is fun, direct, and confident.

The inner canal is multi-textured, with different patterns designed to stimulate along the full length of insertion. The opening stays snug for an enveloping sensation, while the inside keeps up steady pressure during use.

What exactly is Pure Skin?

An ultra-soft TPE. Pure Skin is CalExotics’ signature material for its strokers. It is a thermoplastic elastomer (TPE) designed to recreate a soft, supple, realistic touch. It compresses under pressure and returns to shape after use.

A realistic feel. The body of The First Mate compresses naturally under the fingers, while the inner canal remains stretchable and adaptable. This creates an immersive sensation with a good level of grip.

Important point: TPE is a porous material. That means it needs careful cleaning after every use and has a shorter lifespan than silicone. That is the usual trade-off between realism and an accessible price.

How to use it

Apply plenty of water-based lubricant at the entrance of the canal and on the relevant area. Pure Skin needs good lubrication to deliver the best sensation and help preserve the material.

Insert gradually, at your own pace. The snug entry gives a realistic sensation from the first few centimeters, before the internal textures take over. Hold the stroker in one hand and adjust the pressure to your liking.

You can also place it on a surface to vary positions, but The First Mate does not have a suction cup. It will need to be held or braced for more stability.

The canal is closed at the end, which creates an internal pressure effect that enhances the sensation during use.

What it brings to your solo sessions

The First Mate focuses on visual and tactile realism. Its masculine design, snug canal, internal textures, and dense format create a more immersive experience than a standard sleeve.

Its compact 1.2 kg format strikes a good balance between lightweight mini strokers and bulkier models. It feels good in the hand, stores easily in a drawer, and stays simple to use day to day.

The fun, uninhibited positioning of the Cheap Thrills range also makes it a good gift idea for an adult product universe that does not take itself too seriously, with suggestive packaging that never goes over the top.

Cleaning — essential with TPE

Pure Skin (TPE) is porous. That means it must be cleaned carefully after every use to preserve hygiene and extend its lifespan.

After each use: rinse the canal with warm water, then wash with a mild antibacterial soap or a toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly. Let it air dry completely before storing.

After drying: lightly dust it with cornstarch or a powder designed for TPE to keep the surface soft and prevent the material from becoming sticky.

Do not use: silicone lubricant, pure alcohol, bleach, or abrasive products.

Store it in a fabric pouch or bag, separate from your other toys. TPE can react to prolonged contact with certain materials.

Technical sheet

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: What kind of canal does this model have?

The design is explicitly masculine, with a single canal created to provide an immersive, snug, and textured sensation.

Q: Is the canal closed or open?

Closed. The sealed end helps increase the sense of hold and internal pressure during use.

Q: How long does it last?

Pure Skin is a soft material, but more fragile than silicone. With careful cleaning and regular maintenance, The First Mate can last several months with regular use. If the material becomes sticky, changes appearance, or keeps an odor despite cleaning, it is time to replace it.

Q: Is 1.2 kg enough for hands-free use?

It is a mid-range weight. On a surface it stays relatively stable, but since it has no suction cup, it will need to be braced for semi-hands-free use. For true hands-free use, a model with a fixation system will be more suitable.