Remote Control Fingering Vibrating Dildo - Blue 12.5 cm

The sex toy that moves on its own

A vibrator vibrates. This one moves. Its upper section flexes forward, returns, flexes again - a motion that mimics a finger working inside you. Strap-On-Me named it fingering, and it's what sets this metallic midnight blue model apart from anything you've tried before.

It packs two independent motors: one controls the flexing, the other the vibration. Choose from 3 motion modes and 3 vibration modes, each adjustable across 5 intensity levels. The Boost button on the remote jumps straight to full power, which is exactly what you want when you've stopped caring about finding the right setting.

The pronounced curve and rounded tip target the prostate, and the flexing motion applies pressure that pulses rather than sitting still. The flared base keeps things safe for anal use, holds the toy in place hands-free, and fits onto Strap-On-Me harnesses.

What sets it apart

This combination is hard to find elsewhere. Vibrating dildos are everywhere. Toys that produce genuine mechanical motion are far rarer - rarer still with a shape built for the prostate and a harness-compatible base.

Vibration alone fades, motion doesn't. The body adjusts quickly to a constant frequency. Pressure that keeps moving refreshes the sensation continuously: that's exactly why two motors beat one very strong one.

Everything is rechargeable, toy and remote alike. No batteries to plan for.

The glittery midnight blue isn't just for show. On a toy that ends up left out on a bedside table, that matters - it looks more like a design object than something to hide.

IPX7: shower, bath, and a rinse under the tap without a second thought.

Getting started

Full charge before first use: up to 175 minutes of charging for around 55 minutes of runtime. The remote charges separately, so don't forget it.

Water-based lubricant, nothing else. The toy's silicone can't handle silicone lubricants or oils: the surface would degrade permanently. Use plenty, and top up as you go rather than pushing on dry.

Insert it with the motors off. Relax first, take your time, and only switch on once it's properly in place. It's more comfortable, and the motors feel far better once you're settled.

The curve points towards your stomach. That's the angle that brings the tip into contact with the prostate. If the sensation feels vague, adjust the angle and try small rotations rather than pushing deeper.

Build up the intensity gradually. The fast modes hit hard right away. Nothing stops you from finishing on Boost, but starting there rarely pays off.

In a harness, the base fits Strap-On-Me models. Split the roles: one wears it, the other holds the remote.

Solo, together, at a distance

Solo, it does the job a hand struggles with: holding a steady rhythm in the right spot, for as long as it takes. If a prostate orgasm has stayed theoretical for you, a motorised toy with this shape is often what unlocks it - consistency does more than force.

With a partner, it all comes down to who's holding the remote. Handing over control means handing over the rhythm, and that alone is enough to set up a power dynamic without reaching for any other kind of gear. It works just as well during foreplay as mid-action.

The 10-metre range opens up other scenarios. Keeping it switched on through dinner, while your partner's in the next room, or right before heading out: the game starts well before anyone gets undressed.

During pegging, the vibrations carry through the harness. The one penetrating feels something too, which changes the dynamic completely compared to a passive dildo.

It works best combined. Motorised prostate stimulation on one side, a hand or mouth on the other: that's what produces the most intense orgasms. This toy is built to complement everything else, not replace it.

Care, charging and lubricant

Clean it before and after every use, with warm water and a mild soap or toy cleaner. IPX7 means it can go straight under running water. Dry it thoroughly, especially around the flexing area.

No boiling, no dishwasher, no steriliser. The waterproofing protects against submersion, not heat.

Water-based lubricant exclusively. This is the one genuinely irreversible mistake with this kind of toy: a silicone lubricant would leave the surface sticky and porous, with no way back.

Store it in the cotton pouch provided, away from other silicone toys. Silicone attracts dust and doesn't cope well with prolonged contact with other silicones.

Think about the battery: a top-up charge every two to three months, even without use, and it'll last considerably longer than if left flat.

Shared use: put a condom over it and hygiene between partners is sorted.

Technical specifications

FAQ — Your questions, answered

Q: What's the difference from the aubergine model?

A: Just the colour. Dimensions, motors, modes, runtime and accessories are all exactly the same.

Q: Is the fingering motion noisy?

A: It's more audible than a plain vibration, since there's a mechanism doing the work. It's not loud as such, but don't count on it being completely discreet in a flat with thin walls.

Q: Do I need a harness to use it?

A: No, it works perfectly well on its own thanks to its flared base. A harness is optional, and it needs to be a compatible Strap-On-Me model.

Q: IPX7 waterproof - does that mean I can use it in the shower?

A: Yes, no problem. Rinse it and dry it well afterwards - soapy water sitting in the hinge has no business being there.

Q: Is the remote essential?

A: Yes, it's what controls the modes. Keep it charged, and don't store it away from the toy unless you fancy hunting for it at the wrong moment.