Red and Black 8-Piece BDSM Kit with Hogtie Cross - Secret Bondage

Bondage in red and black, all the way to the hogtie position

Red and black is fetish's historic colour code. Secret Play applies it to this kit from the Secret Bondage, Red & Black Collection range: eight coordinated accessories to discover restraint and submission, with one piece that changes everything, the hogtie cross.

This cross-shaped fastener links the wrist and ankle cuffs together: your partner ends up with arms and legs brought together, offered up, unable to get up. An iconic bondage position, accessible without knowing how to tie a single knot.

It all comes in a black metal box with pink polka dots, which closes to store the kit after use.

What you get in the box

• 2 pairs of cuffs in black edged with red, lined with faux fur, with chain and snap hooks: wrists and ankles
• 1 red hogtie cross with four arms fitted with snap hooks
• 1 red collar lined with faux fur, with its black leash
• 1 red ball gag, perforated, adjustable black strap
• 1 flogger with black vegan leather tails, red handle
• 1 red bondage rope, 10 m
• 1 black mask, lined, for the eyes

Its strong points

Immobilisation without knots. You close the four cuffs, you clip the cross in the middle, done. Your sub keeps wrists and ankles together, body arched, with no rope technique to master.

All the tools of the power game. Collar and leash to guide him, gag to silence him, mask to blind him: psychological domination on top of physical restraint.

Comfort to last. Cuffs and collar lined with faux fur: you can pull, struggle, stay tied up for a while without the restraints cutting into the skin.

A 10 m rope to progress. When cuffs are no longer enough, it lets you tie to the bedhead or learn your first knots.

A look that pops. Bright red, deep black, chrome metal: the kit looks as good spread out on the bed as it does in action.

How to get started with this kit

Start without the cross. First session: cuffs on the wrists, mask over the eyes. Let your partner get used to not controlling anything, then set up the role play with the collar and leash.

Move on to the hogtie once you trust each other. Lying on his stomach, on a bed or a thick rug, wrists behind his back and ankles tied: link the four cuffs to the cross without pulling the chains tight. Ass offered up, he's at your mercy for the flogger, the caresses... or more.

Keep the gag for later. Gag and hogtie together is an experienced player's level: no moving, no talking. Only combine the two with a clear non-verbal signal, and never walk away.

Safety and care

• Safe word set in advance, and a non-verbal signal as soon as the gag is in place.
• Hogtie: a few minutes at first; face down, the rib cage works harder, so release at the slightest breathing discomfort or the first numbness.
• Circulation: you should be able to slide a finger under each cuff; cold or bluish fingers, release him.
• Scissors within reach for the rope, and never leave anyone tied up alone.
• Flogger: ass and thighs; never the lower back, the spine or the head.
• Care: gag in warm soapy water, other pieces with a damp cloth, dry completely before storing.

Technical specifications

FAQ — Your questions, our answers

Q: What is a hogtie cross?

A: An X-shaped fastener with a snap hook at the end of each arm: you clip the wrist and ankle cuffs onto it to bring them together. The sub is immobilised with arms and legs together, with no knot to tie.

Q: What's the difference from the purple kit?

A: The colour, and one piece: here the hogtie cross, there two bell nipple clamps. The rest of the contents is the same.

Q: Is it suitable for a beginner?

A: Yes, if you progress step by step: cuffs and mask first, collar and leash next, the hogtie and the gag when you're both comfortable.

Q: How long can you stay in a hogtie?

A: A few minutes to start with, with breaks. Release immediately in case of numbness, cramp or difficulty breathing.